Explaining Funeral Terminology: A Simple Glossary for Families
When arranging a funeral, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed — not only by the emotions of loss, but also by the unfamiliar words and phrases often used in the process. At FP Gaunt & Sons, we understand that clarity brings comfort, so we’ve put together this simple glossary of funeral terminology. Our hope is that it helps families feel more at ease when making important decisions.
Common Funeral Terms and Their Meanings
Arrangement Meeting
A meeting with your funeral director to discuss wishes, paperwork, and practical details for the funeral service.
Ashes (Cremated Remains)
The remains collected after a cremation. Families may choose to scatter, bury, or keep ashes in a memorial urn.
Bearers (Pallbearers)
Individuals who carry or escort the coffin during the funeral. They may be family, friends, or funeral staff.
Celebrant
The person who leads the funeral ceremony. This could be a religious minister or a civil celebrant, depending on your preference.
Chapel of Rest
A Chapel of Rest is a peaceful, private room where loved ones can visit and spend time with the deceased before the funeral.
Committal
The final part of the service, where the coffin is lowered into the ground or the curtains are closed at the crematorium.
Cortege (Funeral Procession)
The journey made by the hearse and accompanying vehicles from the funeral home or family home to the service or burial ground.
Direct Cremation
A simple, no-service cremation. Families may hold a memorial or celebration of life separately.
Eulogy
A tribute or speech given in memory of the deceased, often shared by a family member, friend, or celebrant.
Funeral Director
A professional who supports families with all aspects of arranging a funeral — from legal paperwork to service planning and emotional support.
Interment
The burial of a coffin or ashes in a grave.
Memorial Service
A service held to honour and celebrate a life, often taking place after a private burial or cremation.
Order of Service
A printed booklet given to attendees, outlining the structure of the ceremony, including readings, hymns, and music.
Wake (Funeral Reception)
A gathering after the funeral service where family and friends come together to share memories, food, and support.
Why Understanding Funeral Terminology Matters
Funeral arrangements involve many decisions, and knowing the correct terminology helps families feel informed and reassured. At FP Gaunt & Sons, our compassionate team is always available to explain each step and guide you through the process.
Frequently Asked Questions About Funerals
What is the difference between a wake and a funeral?
A funeral is the service itself, which may include religious or personal elements. A wake (or reception) is the gathering afterwards where people share memories and support each other.
What is a direct cremation?
A direct cremation is the simplest form of cremation with no service or mourners present. Families may then arrange a memorial service at a later date.
Do I have to have a religious service?
Not at all. Many families now choose civil or humanist celebrants who create non-religious ceremonies tailored to personal wishes.
What is included in funeral costs?
Funeral costs generally include professional services, the coffin, transport, and cremation or burial fees. Additional options such as flowers, printed orders of service, and memorials are usually extra.
What should I wear to a funeral?
Traditionally, black or dark clothing is worn, but many families now choose to celebrate individuality by asking guests to wear brighter colours. For more information, please read our full guide on what to wear to a funeral
Need Support or Guidance?
If you are planning a funeral and would like caring, professional advice, please contact FP Gaunt & Sons Funeral Directors. Our experienced team is here to guide you with compassion and clarity every step of the way.
