How long should a funeral flower message be?

A short, heartfelt message is best, 1 to 3 sentences. Keep it simple and sincere.

Can I include a personal memory on a card?

Yes. Sharing a meaningful memory adds warmth and comfort but keep it brief.

Is it okay to use humour?

Only if it was part of the deceased’s personality and appropriate for the grieving family.

Should I mention religion?

Only if you know the recipient would appreciate it. Otherwise, keep it neutral and respectful.

Can I send flowers with a card if I cannot attend the funeral?

Absolutely. Sending flowers with a thoughtful card is a kind way to express condolences if you cannot be present.

What To Write On Funeral Flowers

30+ Thoughtful Messages & Templates

Sending funeral flowers is a meaningful way to express sympathy and show support during a difficult time. Choosing the right words for the accompanying card can be challenging, but a heartfelt message can bring comfort to grieving loved ones.

This guide offers ready-to-use funeral flower messages for different relationships and situations, helping you convey your condolences with care and sincerity.

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How to Write a Funeral Flower Message

When writing a funeral flower card, keep your message:

Simple and sincere – Avoid overcomplicated phrases.
Personalised – Mention memories, qualities, or shared experiences if appropriate.
Supportive – Show that you care and are there for the recipient.
Respectful – Be mindful of religious or cultural preferences.

Short & Simple Funeral Flower Messages

“With deepest sympathy.”
“Thinking of you during this difficult time.”
“In loving memory of someone special.”
“Wishing you comfort and peace.”
“Our hearts are with you.”

Messages by Relationship

Grandparents

“In loving memory of the best Grandma/Grandpa ever. Forever in our hearts.”
“Your love and wisdom will continue to guide us.”
“Rest in peace, Grandma/Grandpa. We cherish the moments we shared.”

Friend

“You were more than a friend; you were family. Rest in peace.”
“In memory of a friend who brought joy to our lives. You will be missed.”
“You made the world brighter, dear friend. Your memory will shine forever.”

Mum

“You were the heart of our family, Mum. Your love lives on.”
“In loving memory of a wonderful mother. You will be deeply missed.”
“Forever grateful for your love, Mum. Rest peacefully.”

Dad

“Dad, your legacy of love and strength will forever inspire us.”
“In memory of an incredible father. Your guidance will always be with us.”
“Rest in peace, Dad. Your laughter and love will echo in our hearts.”

Sister

“Sisters are forever, and your memory will live on eternally in my heart.”
“In memory of a sister who brought joy and laughter into our lives.”
“Though you're gone, our bond will never break.”

Brother

“In loving memory of a brother who brought light to our lives.”
“You were more than a brother; you were a friend. Rest peacefully.”
“Your laughter and love will be remembered always.”

Uncle

“In loving memory of an uncle who made every family gathering special.”
“Your wisdom and humour enriched our lives. Rest peacefully, Uncle.”
“You will always hold a special place in our hearts.”

Auntie

“In memory of an auntie who filled our lives with love and warmth.”
“Your kindness and caring nature will be cherished forever.”
“Rest in peace, dear Auntie. You were a blessing to us all.”

Husband

“To my beloved husband, you will forever be the love of my life.”
“In loving memory of a wonderful husband. You are deeply missed.”
“Rest in peace, my love. Our hearts are forever intertwined.”

Wife

“To my beloved wife, your love will forever be the guiding light in my life.”
“In memory of a wonderful wife and partner. You are deeply missed.”
“Rest in peace, my love. Our love story will never end.”

What Not to Write on Funeral Flowers

Avoid:
✘ Clichés like “They’re in a better place”
✘ Comparisons (“I know exactly how you feel”)
✘ Minimising statements (“At least they lived a long life”)
✘ Advice or judgement
✘ Overly casual language

Focus on empathy, love, and respect.

FAQ

How long should a funeral flower message be?
A short, heartfelt message is best, 1 to 3 sentences. Keep it simple and sincere.
Can I include a personal memory on a card?
Yes. Sharing a meaningful memory adds warmth and comfort but keep it brief.
Is it okay to use humour?
Only if it was part of the deceased’s personality and appropriate for the grieving family.
Should I mention religion?
Only if you know the recipient would appreciate it. Otherwise, keep it neutral and respectful.
Can I send flowers with a card if I cannot attend the funeral?
Absolutely. Sending flowers with a thoughtful card is a kind way to express condolences if you cannot be present.